tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.comments2023-12-19T00:21:32.286+00:00Post Modern Sleazeelectronic dollhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15255101845615353600noreply@blogger.comBlogger473125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-29168806577135680542023-12-19T00:21:32.286+00:002023-12-19T00:21:32.286+00:00Lovely blog yyou have hereLovely blog yyou have hereYearn 4 Financehttps://medium.com/@yearn4.financenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-30131241063227245132023-09-30T21:48:18.280+01:002023-09-30T21:48:18.280+01:00Great reading yoour blog postGreat reading yoour blog postCentral Intelligence IThttps://centralintelligence-it.tumblr.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-86320153924960456292023-05-28T15:52:16.223+01:002023-05-28T15:52:16.223+01:00Hi nice reading youur blogHi nice reading youur blogGuacamole Recipeshttps://www.guacamole-recipes.com/guacamole/pork_tacos_with_creamy_guacamole_and_cabbage_13849820924.shtmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-46953241505309262322022-08-15T06:40:38.034+01:002022-08-15T06:40:38.034+01:00Appreciiate this blog postAppreciiate this blog postJunk Removal Woodland Hillshttps://www.junk-removals.com/us/california-bin-rentals/junk-removal-woodland-hills.shtmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-60624648049669923032021-12-18T11:09:12.590+00:002021-12-18T11:09:12.590+00:00Great read thaankyouGreat read thaankyouZoey Rhttps://www.zoeyroberts.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-91964244088453845272013-11-11T21:42:10.127+00:002013-11-11T21:42:10.127+00:00Wow!
Great story.
Real I hope!
You are a good wri...Wow!<br />Great story.<br />Real I hope!<br /><br />You are a good writer.<br /><br />Thanks<br /><br />Curious yellowAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-54741615320280935602013-04-21T18:23:22.867+01:002013-04-21T18:23:22.867+01:00This is really interesting and certainly got my br...This is really interesting and certainly got my brain whirring.<br /><br />It's something I've noticed myself at parties, indeed at one last night! I'd never considered what sat behind it.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing xBabefiendhttp://www.babefiend.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-76137081088393147992013-01-16T11:07:23.816+00:002013-01-16T11:07:23.816+00:00Why haven't i found this blog earlier ... ? Gr...Why haven't i found this blog earlier ... ? Great job done here..MOLhttp://www.modelsoflondon.co.uk/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-13306871269021973902012-12-04T23:47:35.746+00:002012-12-04T23:47:35.746+00:00Congratuations on finding your hearts desire....
...Congratuations on finding your hearts desire....<br /><br />We still have fond memories of our foursome way back in 2009 (smart set). <br /><br />Wishing all the best<br /><br />Balzac & Cerys<br />Balzachttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07302335720772784160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-705653027860553802012-11-12T10:11:29.359+00:002012-11-12T10:11:29.359+00:00I've followed your blog over the years with in...I've followed your blog over the years with interest and I'm saddened to see it come to a end.<br /><br />On the other hand I'm happy for you now that you've found what you've been looking for. <br /><br />All things must have an end and as they say in Dune: <br /><i>"Arrakis teaches the attitude of the knife — chopping off what’s incomplete and saying: “Now it’s complete because it’s ended here.” – from Collected Sayings of Muad’Dib by the Princess Irulan </i>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-77513426436908343642012-11-06T17:21:19.879+00:002012-11-06T17:21:19.879+00:00I've been reading your blog for over a year no...I've been reading your blog for over a year now and really enjoyed the raw and truthful way you wrote about your experiences, wants and desires. I can understand bowing out when on a high note. I commend for it. Enjoy what Life has to offer you, you deserve it!Rebekahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01819359470466826703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-59088585922392952752012-10-29T07:43:46.137+00:002012-10-29T07:43:46.137+00:00Gosh, and I just rediscovered this bookmark! Shame...Gosh, and I just rediscovered this bookmark! Shame. :-(<br /><br />Best of luck.<br /><br />- ZAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-67966974281307493972012-10-28T23:10:57.715+00:002012-10-28T23:10:57.715+00:00ED I'm sorry to see you go. but I totally unde...ED I'm sorry to see you go. but I totally understand. There's nothing worse than an unresolved ending or worse, limbo where you expect posts but they never come. Your goodbye is artful, tactful and candidly honest.<br /><br />I wish you well on your post-post modern sleaze. I just have one question...<br /><br />where can i find out about when the book comes out?<br /><br />Your anonymous distant reading admirer,<br />MMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05823503111603920289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-68006663342001201142012-10-28T10:43:13.441+00:002012-10-28T10:43:13.441+00:00...And what a ride.
Over the last couple of years......And what a ride.<br /><br />Over the last couple of years, your writings have provided important, insightful commentary that has made my journey easier, better, sweeter, more interesting. I've pointed numerous people to this blog as a way of helping them to think about, contextualise and transform their kink from fantasy to reality.<br /><br />And I'm so incredibly happy for you, that you found Ganymede, and The Job, and are hopefully surrounded by a collective of friends who love and respect you. You deserve no less.<br /><br />Thank you. You made a huge difference.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-57916483920939508232012-09-28T13:23:07.259+01:002012-09-28T13:23:07.259+01:00"Disgusting antics" of pickup artists? I..."Disgusting antics" of pickup artists? If it was irony I don't get it. If it was serious, it's pretty judgemental. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-67765232981456089682012-09-28T12:53:00.749+01:002012-09-28T12:53:00.749+01:00I've loved reading your blog and I really hope...I've loved reading your blog and I really hope you write the book. But if it does become a hit some journalist will out you. That's how these things work. Still you shouldn't be ashamed of you who are. So be brave.<br /><br />I don't know your family so I can't say how they would react but I can guess that in 100 years if some relative of yours did a Who Do You Think You Are? style programme you writing a best selling book about kink is going to be one of the most interesting things in the programme.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-68231986826509996742012-09-25T16:12:02.127+01:002012-09-25T16:12:02.127+01:00Much as I would love to read a book written by you...Much as I would love to read a book written by you (and to see it sell well so that thousands of people become more educated about kink), I don't think you can do it if you don't want your parents finding out. I read about the amount of trouble Belle de Jour went to in order to maintain her anonymity. Any less than that and, if someone decided that outing you was a story, they'd find out who you are in no time at all.<br /><br />I still hope you do it though. The world needs to see a more realistic representation of kink.lipsticklorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01509292962165806049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-5529992739310339612012-09-23T03:41:51.915+01:002012-09-23T03:41:51.915+01:00I'm surprised you haven't got a book alrea...I'm surprised you haven't got a book already! In the corporate parlance, there is a gap for intelligent kink literature. Your blog constitutes this, I like how theoretical it gets, I like how you make your experiences more a kaleidoscope of the bits of your life you want to talk about. Not necessarily all of your life (like the moments when you wait for the toaster to finish heating bread), but the parts that make it you, and you alone.<br /><br />I'm looking forward to how this develops :)Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05823503111603920289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-85310065407622587492012-09-04T07:07:25.017+01:002012-09-04T07:07:25.017+01:00Oh, dear, this is painful for me to read. I really...Oh, dear, this is painful for me to read. I really hope I can find a way to have a Master who can be my secondary. I'm relatively new to the poly life and have only had one partner of any length of time since the husband and I opened up. My partner and I went through all sorts of issues because I needed him to be more of a dom than he could be. We called the D/s dynamic off to try a kinky relationship without that but my feeling of loss started immediately. The very recent breakup was ultimately caused by the emotional attachment I felt/feel towards him, an attachment based on the early D/s dynamic. The loss is still that of a submissive for her Master.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10909876776316348414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-19991814992331068262012-09-03T12:35:35.889+01:002012-09-03T12:35:35.889+01:00I want to comment, but I'm not sure what exact...I want to comment, but I'm not sure what exactly I want to say. Let's just leave it at this... this post has given me loads to think about.lipsticklorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01509292962165806049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-369246235976909382012-08-31T08:08:37.025+01:002012-08-31T08:08:37.025+01:00Thanks for writing this thoughtful piece. And I th...Thanks for writing this thoughtful piece. And I think that acknowledgment that safewords are fallible is important.<br /><br />What muddies the water further for me is that I have found that since I was sexually assaulted I have become less able to safeword. Instead I find myself freezing up and panicking. It's a hard thing to think that this incident is limiting my ability to play as hard as I would like to. And I'm horrified that I could put my boy (who has always been so respectful of my consent in all ways) in that difficult position without it being his fault at all. The last thing I'd want is to give him that burden of guilt.<br /><br />I think it's very important to never stop worrying or making sure you understand each other's boundaries, but at the same time be mindful that sometimes things *do* go wrong even with the best intentions on both sides.<br /><br />J.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12962778185039217944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-62459945159108925212012-07-30T20:43:03.941+01:002012-07-30T20:43:03.941+01:00life is about changes, and this may be the next ph...life is about changes, and this may be the next phase in your life. I would dread if things stayed the same with the same routine, whether htat may be for you the munches or the social nuances of bdsm. <br /><br />the way i see it, its less bullshitting and you being more yourself. If you like being homely and domestic, so be it. I'm happy for you. Just hope you keep updating us on your articulate insights :)Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05823503111603920289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-47704379806875971392012-07-07T18:21:02.342+01:002012-07-07T18:21:02.342+01:00fascinating post, eloquent exegesis on the tentacl...fascinating post, eloquent exegesis on the tentacle phenomena. urotsukidoji has a lot to blame for poorly thought internet meme jokes. however, the non-human and unexpected aspect of fetish is very interesting. <br /><br />watching the prometheus film did make very obvious sexual allegories to me with the imagery of the face hugger's vagina like face and so forth, it is a mix of uncomfortable and erotic. Quite a delightful and ugly mix. I think I understand this sexual attraction slightly more now, should one call it a paraphilia? <br /><br />Always a pleasure to read you ED<br />MMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05823503111603920289noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-88103262391777074402012-06-20T21:27:52.540+01:002012-06-20T21:27:52.540+01:00Your guilt is human. It shows your true power- tha...Your guilt is human. It shows your true power- that your dominance is a mental as well as physical game. It is only through such experiences that we learn about ourselves - our limits, triggers and coping strategies. <br /><br />I can only speak for myself but I honour your guilt and can reassure you that there is no broken trust between you and I. <br /><br />We both have complete respect for your style of play and dominance. I am completely comfortable with handing over Presto to your confines - he, also, enjoys your interactions immensely. Just, too many confounding factors this time for it to be magical. The ebb and flow of the dance of bdsm will continue to teach us all things we didn't know existed.<br /><br />Life is beautiful.<br /><br />Much love and friendship<br /><br />Idyll xFunkdup_khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04883613874364980775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-34078263862492853912012-06-12T09:48:05.005+01:002012-06-12T09:48:05.005+01:00You're so right about having to find what work...You're so right about having to find what works every time. No one should assume that what worked in one relationship will be fine for the next. A really interesting post :-)lipsticklorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01509292962165806049noreply@blogger.com