tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post2507454172606903789..comments2023-12-19T00:21:32.286+00:00Comments on Post Modern Sleaze: Nothing happenedelectronic dollhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15255101845615353600noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-75713211831894213772009-09-03T15:22:20.568+01:002009-09-03T15:22:20.568+01:00You are right it is no wonder. Shame I did not fu...You are right it is no wonder. Shame I did not fully embrace my feelings for BDSM when I was in my early 20's - I could have had so much fun.<br /><br />Do enjoy your unpicking !Charleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13103728759680057852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-48477258842906610972009-09-03T12:55:07.155+01:002009-09-03T12:55:07.155+01:00It's always funny coming across reactions like...It's always funny coming across reactions like this. I know that they are irrational responses to have and are not connected to the person I am with at the time, however it's hard to pull yourself out of such a pervasive stereotype - even when you know it to be a stereotype. <br /><br />Which is one of the reasons why I try to work to unpick these concepts, because they aren't actually "real" or helpful feelings - they are based on a bad viewpoint of ourselves, imposed from the outside. Hardly the stuff to found decent decisions on.<br /><br />You're right that these conceptions can be problematic for society as a whole, especially when you consider that they form part of the moral makeup of what is perceived as acceptable "normal" behaviour. <br /><br />No wonder nice young boys are turning to a life of BDSM...electronic dollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15255101845615353600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3949711547542015501.post-71835012026424192752009-09-01T17:40:46.830+01:002009-09-01T17:40:46.830+01:00I love the way you write.
Speaking as a married...I love the way you write. <br /><br />Speaking as a married man of over 10 years, I feel able to comment on the other side of the fence. I also have reasons to regret the <i>imprinting</i> on teenage girls of the phrases like "Prick tease" and "Leading someone on". I am quite sure that some men are not emotionally mature enough to distinguish affection for foreplay. I for one, am quite happy for some sensual attention knowing that it is not (or may not), lead on to anything more let alone full intimacy.<br /><br />Don't think for a second I am blaming you or any other female, it is just the way sociality is these days. In the long run I think we all suffer, in the girls case, as you highlighted in the feeling that you can't do something and in the boys missing out on the reassurance of affection.Charleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13103728759680057852noreply@blogger.com